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Ep# 133 10 Things I Hate About Your Boo

So you finally met your bestie’s Boo and he or she is HORRIBLE!!  Now what?  Or Your Best friend tells you that even though you think you’ve found Mr. Right , they feel like perhaps he’s Mr. Right Now..

How do we handle these situations? Are we to choose? Join Us this week as we dive in to this topic. How have you handled the situation? Tell us your thoughts and stories below!

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Ep #132 How to Attract the Right Man into your Life with Georgia Woodbine

Join us and our guest Georgia Woodbine as she breaks down the Do’s and Don’ts to attracting the right person into your life. Georgia Woodbine is a life coach and public speaker who helps people change  their lives on a daily basis. Come engage and get some pointers! Do you agree with what our guest is saying? How did you attract the right person..Join in the conversation below!

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Ep# 128 How Many Red Flags Do You Need to See Before You Wave Your White Flag?

Join us this week as we discuss red flags. What is a red flag? What are your red flags? Our Facebook friends share their thoughts on red flags.  Can you get passed these red flags? Will they change if you get married? Probably not, but come hear our thoughts on the sunject matter. Maybe your partner is rude to the waiters? Maybe they have a secretive past? Maybe they like cats ? What are your red flags? Share below !   Continue reading

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Ep #125 Tell Me Lies ..Tell Me Sweet Little Lies.. : Do White Lies Matter ?

Ever told a tiny little ” white” lie to avoid hurting someone’s feelings? Your Partner asks you ,” Do I look fat in this ?”  What do you say ?? We all know sometimes the truth hurts, but maybe it’s our delivery. Have a chat with April and Jenn to discuss which white lies should never be told, Which one’s are OK, and how to change the dialog so that you can be honest without being hurtful. Have you ever told a white lie to avoid something ? Did it ever backfire? Join in the conversation below and share your stories!  Continue reading

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Ep #123 The Man and the Woman in the Mirror: Vanity in Relationships

In this episode of BLB we discuss whether or not it’s okay to ask someone you are dating to change something about themselves? Whether it be weight , clothes, the style of hair, too much or not enough make-up, is it ever okay to ask someone to change?  Are these things deal breakers ? Is weight the only taboo topic? Is it okay to say” Hey babe, you’ve gained a few pounds, get on that”!? We discuss healthy ways to have these conversations.   We all know no one is perfect , but how far have you gone to try and change your partner or what have they asked you to change? What did you think about that ?? Join in the conversation below !  Continue reading

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Ep #122 MEET YOU AT THE ALTAR OR MEET YOU AT THE CLUB? .. ARE YOU MARRIAGE MATERIAL ?

In this Episode of BLB , the ladies discuss what makes a man or a woman marraige material. Women and Men are quick to say they can’t find someone to settle down with but forget to ask themselves, ” What I am bringing to the table?”. Women are not going to take the womanizer male seriously if he like to put out that playboy persona. Same for ladies who want to bare it all with out leaving anything to the imagination. Does this get you your Happily Ever After or just the Ex to the Next ? Come discuss with us and leave your thoughts and comments below. We love you hear from YOU!!  Continue reading

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Ep #121 It’s Allegedly A Man’s World: Are You Attracted to Sexist Men? w/ Brigid

Join us this week ,with our returning guest Brigid, as we talk about the theory that some women are actually attracted to men who are sexist. We debunk studies and talk about the difference of being sexist, chauvinistic, and an alpha male, and whether or not us women find that sexy. What do you find attractive?  Is what he’s saying being sexist ? What can we do as women to change the conversation? Join us in the discussion!

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#119 – Letting Go & Moving On

“There’s this meme that reads “Sometimes holding on does more damage than letting go”. In this episode we explore that statement and try to answer why we hold on to the things that have hurt us. What are we trying to prove? What exactly can’t we get over? Join us as we attempt to let go and move on mentally, spiritually, and physically from things that can hold us back from becoming better people.”

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#118 – 4:44: The Story of MJ – An Intervention w/April, Brigid & Randy

12 episodes ago, a conversation started. Today, we (finally) have it. Tune in to hear how this band of brother (and sisters, literally and figuratively) try to bring hope back into the life of a jaded spirit. You don’t want to miss this informative, important and invaluable conversation dealing with relationships, dating, and personal struggles. Grab YOUR friends and listen in. Maybe it might spark a dialogue within your group to share your stories with one another. Enjoy and educate!  Continue reading

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#117 – Keeping Relationships Fresh w/guest “The Rock God of Podcasting” Charles Mcfall

In this week’s episode Jenn meets the Rock God of Podcasting, Finally! and we all chat it up about how to keep a relationship fresh. The important things to do that will keep your significant other feeling all the feels they felt on day one, even if its day 5236! Charles helped us break down keeping things fresh before you start a family with little one and after.  Also howto notice and discover the root of what your partner really wants and needs from you.  So check it out, and let us know what are your thoughts , tricks and tips on keeping it fresh!  Continue reading

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Episode 116: Man-Child / Kid at Heart – Admiring or Adult Wanted? w/ Brigid

“Why don’t you GROW UP?” “GET A JOB!” “Do something with yourSELF!” We’ve all heard THAT before right? To some, those exclamations remind us of our adolescence when our parents were down our throats about our future. To others, however, it reminds us of last week – but this with our significant others! In this episode we talk about the difference between a man child and a kid heart. Is there a difference or should they just both put on their adult pants. Are the significant others out of line? Should the men be allowed to have a fun side? You know what they say “all work and no play…”  But what do YOU say? Would you tolerate a man child or would you leave him in the dust in his diapers? Tune in to see what we said!  Continue reading

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Episode 110: I’m Not Mad. Whatever. Fine. UGH! – Passive Aggressiveness & Dating w/ Brigid

“It’s okay”. “Thanks in advance”. “No that’s okay…I’LL do it”. YEESH. Have you heard or spoken any of these lines? We put so much effort into avoiding conflict. Are you the same? Can you identify? What are the reasons? How can we stop it? We had the lovely Brigid back to tell us her story about her most recent bout with passive aggressiveness and we also a LIVE listener question! Tune in to hear what we had to say!  Continue reading

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Episode 109: Naked & Afraid – How Do We Date & Mate In a #MeToo World? w/ Sexologist & Psychotherapist Dr. Kristie Overstreet

From Ansari to “I’m Sorry”, there’s been a range of the good, the bad, and the ugly pertaining to the #MeToo Movement. The one thing lacking is sort of a “rules and regulations” to the conversation. How do we date in a #Metoo world? How do we touch/make love to a suitor? Can we still mimic what they do in the movies or is that outdated? Can a person be “too” careful enough to ruin the mood? No one wants to make anyone uncomfortable so how do we go about interacting with someone in a romantic manner? We got a returning guest to hopefully help us make sense of this new world we live in. Tune in to see what we came up with!  Continue reading

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Episode 108: So Close Yet So Far – The Dating and Distance Dilemma w/ Brigid

Have you ever dated someone only to find that they’re juuust out of reach? Not mentally out of reach, or even physically – but geographically. We’re not even talking long distance either. Maybe a bridge away or a couple tolls, or how about even a hour away. Yes, as the saying goes “what won’t you do for love”, but we’re not being lazy here! Going back and forth seeing someone who may live in a metropolitan area while you may be “in the sticks” is a daunting venture in the world of dating. Time & money are at an all time high when dealing with these parameters. So is it worth depleting your resources for this person, or should you just find someone with the same zip code? Tune in as we talk this out with our guest!  Continue reading

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Episode 97: He Said, She Said & the Gray Area of Consent w/ Miss April Speaks

Rape. Regret. Consent. Coerce. Harass. Her ass. Misconduct. Misunderstood. Yes. NO. #MeToo. Men too. These words have been on the forefront of every blog, news ticker, morning radio show, and internet timeline for the past 5 months. We thought it was time for us to give in our own 2 cents on the matter. Join us as we discuss the serious matters of Today the only way BedLoveBeyond knows how: with Laughter, Listening, and of course Learning. Tune in as we try to tackle and make sense of what’s going on in today’s climate together.  Continue reading

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Episode 95: Seeing Eye to Eye to “I Do” – Does Your Parent’s Vision of a Partner Match Your Own?

“No one is good enough for my daughter!” “I’m not gonna let some floosie take away my son!” YIKES! Have you come across statements like that in your life? These might be exaggerated but unfortunately they DO exist in some form or another. If you’re thinking about being in relationship (or already in one), there might be a chance that your parents won’t like your significant other. They might have had someone totally different in mind for you. So what do you do with that? Do you try to find someone that suits their wishes for you? Or do you just go with your gut and let your heart decide? Could there be a chance that your parent’s vision for a partner can match your own? Tune in to see what we think on the matter!  Continue reading

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5 Years.

Today marks 5 years since the day that my ex-fiancé broke up with me. The date is not something that I keep track of, but it’s not exactly something that I can forget either. Continue reading

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Episode 90: Going Out On the Prowl w/ “The Bad Boy of the Dating Game” Mr. Locario

Confidence. Game. SWAG. In the dating game, you’re gonna need any one of those aforementioned words if you’re gonna make it out there in the field. It’s bad out there, and in this age of social media and dating apps, gaining a person’s attention is getting harder and harder each day. How do you make yourself stand out? How do you keep the person you have once you got got them? How much wood could a woodchuck chuck if a woodchuck could chuck wood? We have a special guest to help us out with our questions (okay, maybe not the last one). So tune in and listen as there are a lot of mic drops on this episode – particularly cause I’m clumsy – but ALSO because our guest is dropping some KNOWLEDGE up in this place!  Continue reading

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Dating At The Speed(force) of Light – Pt. 2

Well, I did it… 12 hours later, and I survived! I got to tell you, what an interesting experience that was.  Continue reading

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Dating At The Speed(force) Of Light – Pt. 1

To bolding go where no Martini has gone before…

I’m going speed dating y’all and as you heard on episode 83, I am both nervous and excited. Actually, I’m glad I’m doing it because this is a long time coming. I’ve always been fascinated by the concept of speed dating, and also, it’s going to be geek oriented/themed so it’s to my advantage. But the real main reason why I’m glad to really put myself out there is because I might finally find someone, but more so… finally find someone along the lines of who I am. Someone who will complement me as opposed to conforming to their way of life.  Continue reading

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Episode 86: Bring Me a Higher Love – Exploring Intimacy Farther then The Physical w/ Relationship Educator Yanni Brown

With dating, especially at the beginning, people tend to rush through the pleasantries and only want get to the “good” part. Not pointing fingers or anything, sex is AWESOME, but is that really the thing we should be focusing on? What happened to being the Tortoise instead of the Hare? What about the slow build? I’m not even talking about foreplay (although that’s nice too!). What happened to getting to know a person first? Getting to know the Ins and Outs of them as opposed to just going in and out of them? There are other ways of getting to know a person before you do the horizontal polka. That’s where our special guest steps in. Yanni Brown, relationship educator, lets us know the many ways of being intimate before we even get take our clothes off.  Continue reading

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Episode 85: What’s The Issue with Today’s Woman? w/Relationship Coach Valerie Greene

In the interest of equality amongst the sexes, it was only fair to have a sequel to Episode 78’s “What’s the Issue with Today’s Man?”. After an informative talk with Elliott Katz on the issues of Men not being able to meet Women’s standards in dating, it was time to see the other side of the coin and assess the attempts at Love from some women in the dating sphere. Why haven’t they been successful in getting a man? Some of the revelations may shock you. I get to the nitty gritty with our guest today who (learning from experience) was more than happy to share some insight on the matter of females missing the mark when it came to love. Tune in to see what was said!
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Episode 78: “I’m Tired”, She Said – What’s The Issue with Today’s Man? w/ guest (& Author) Elliott Katz

Whether it’s through song, poetry, spoken word or tweet, women are letting their feelings known about the opposite sex – and it’s not good. Time after time another declaration is heard from the masses claiming that men aren’t doing their “job” and “real” men are few and far between. Is this claim real? What HAS happened to men and is there a way to fix the problem? Listen as we try to get to the bottom of this for all (Wo)mankind!  Continue reading

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Episode 68: Dating After Divorce w/ “Plushy” Model Jenica JPoetry

A much needed sequel from Episode 21, we revisit Jenica and her standing after being divorced for a year. We go in depth to see how it’s been back in the world as a single woman, how dating has been after being promised a lifetime partner, and also if she even has TIME to date because of all the projects she’s involved in! Tune in and listen to the episode now!  Continue reading

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Episode 59: Right You, Wrong Time – Close Encounters of The Love Kind

When is the “right” time to get int a relationship? Is there such a thing? How about if you meet the right person and you’re not ready to engage in a budding future? What do you do? Do you fake it til you make it or do you let that go? But what if that person was “The One?” Could you afford letting them slip away? Or do good things come to those to wait? Jennifer and I take a stab at this conundrum and see if we can figure out what the hell to do in this sort of situation.  Continue reading

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