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Episode 68: Dating After Divorce w/ “Plushy” Model Jenica JPoetry

A much needed sequel from Episode 21, we revisit Jenica and her standing after being divorced for a year. We go in depth to see how it’s been back in the world as a single woman, how dating has been after being promised a lifetime partner, and also if she even has TIME to date because of all the projects she’s involved in! Tune in and listen to the episode now!  Continue reading

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Episode 67: Falling in Love with Potential – Cultivate or Cut it OFF?

You see that your partner has potential but it hasn’t fully blossomed yet. Do you wait for the day for it to bloom or should you just leave and find someone else who’s already past that stage of development? There’s a saying that goes “good things come to those who wait”, but can you afford to now a days? Are they worth it? Continue reading

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Episode 66: Finding The One After “The One” w/guest Jorge

If you’ve ever been in love, “I think s/he’s the one!” might’ve been said once or twice in your life. You’ve probably also said “Man, I THOUGHT they were the one” a couple times too. We’ve all been there. When the stars align and you think to yourself, “this is it… I found them.” Then something happens and *POOF* the stars burst into a million fragments (just like your heart) and your future life ceases to exist. You’re stuck in limbo, and you don’t know how to move forward, and you will most certainly never love again. That is until someone else comes along and rewrites your purpose in life and makes you believe again. How do you get from point A to B? How does the new ‘One’ makes us love again? How did we get the previous ‘One’ sooo WRONG? 3 Trains Of Thought on this episode where I had a ‘One’, Jenn has had a ‘One’ & considers her boo THE ‘One’, and our guest and a ‘One’ and married his new One. Please take heed as our guest tells his story from downtrodden to triumphant about how he got from one ‘One’ to the next and how he’s never looked back. Also he gives us advice on what to do when we’re in our own limbo as well. Take a listen!  Continue reading

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Episode 64 – Spare Feelings or To Tell The Truth?

Have you ever been in a situation where a lie was better then telling the truth? Of COURSE.. we ALL have, but was it worth it? Depends doesn’t? Where is our moral compass in these situations? Why can’t we just let it out? Is it because we care or is the consequence of the truth too much to bear? Today Jenn (She’s BACK!) and I discuss this topic to see if whether we should sparing someone’s feelings for the betterment of the relationship.  Continue reading

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Episode 63 – Beauty & the Geek: Do Opposites Attract? w/guest Dr. NerdLove

Ah, the Geek. In media, this is someone you never want to be. Shown as meek, awkward, and unattractive, the geek has served to be the laughing stock of the sitcom social spectrum. Unfortunately (whether we want to admit it or not), they are people in real life that are like that. So is there any hope for them to be successful in the dating game like the “Zack Morris'” or the “AC Slater’s” of the world, or will their love life come “screeching” to a halt? On this episode is a very special guest (Dr. NerdLove) to talk about the subject and to set the record straight on Geeks and their odds in the dating game.  Continue reading

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Episode 62: Picking Up The Last of Your Stuff: Moving Out & Moving On

To quote a song by Rob Thomas, “Here we stand, somewhere in between this moment and the end.” You’ve done all you can but it’s time to say goodbye. But how do you? It’s one thing to end a relationship when you were on your own, but what about if you lived together? It’s bad enough that the relationship is over, but who goes? Who stays? How do you tell the one that you loved to get the hell out? Do you throw their stuff out on the lawn? Do you supervise? Do you give them a timetable to when to get their stuff? How do you move out and move on to green pastures? Have a listen and see what we had to say!  Continue reading

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Episode 61: Giving The Key to Your Place: Big Deal or Not That Serious?

It’s one of those things that could define a relationship OR something that just happens within it – which makes it all the more confusing! What are we talking about? Giving a key to your place. For some it’s a “next step”. But for others it’s convenient they don’t have to get up when you ring the bell anymore. What say you? Do YOU think it’s a “big deal” to get a key to your significant other’s place? Or do you feel it’s just something you do when you’re in a relationship? Or maybe it’s something that you don’t do AT ALL? Listen in and see what we had to say!  Continue reading

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Episode 60: How close is TOO close? – Where’s The Line between Pal & Partner?

Flirting. Pet names.  Cuddle time. Vacations. Quality Time. All awesome things that you and a significant other can do right? But what if you were doing these things with just… a friend? Not a friend with benefits, or a friend that you are trying to see a future with, but nope.. a plain ol friend. Weird, huh? Well, not according to some people who have done it in my & Jenn’s lives. Some feel it’s completely fine to assign cutesy names, or attend events that our dear to you, or travel across the country with you and still be able to stay platonic with you. Um.. what? Maybe it’s cool for some, but it’s definitely something that I’m not cool with. Tune in and find out what Jenn and I think!  Continue reading

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Episode 59: Right You, Wrong Time – Close Encounters of The Love Kind

When is the “right” time to get int a relationship? Is there such a thing? How about if you meet the right person and you’re not ready to engage in a budding future? What do you do? Do you fake it til you make it or do you let that go? But what if that person was “The One?” Could you afford letting them slip away? Or do good things come to those to wait? Jennifer and I take a stab at this conundrum and see if we can figure out what the hell to do in this sort of situation.  Continue reading

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Episode 58: Should You Be An Open Book to Your Boo?

At times we feel resistant to tell others, let alone our significant others, things about ourselves. It’s hard to let people in. Sometimes we like to create perfect caricatures of ourselves to tote around and be our representative instead of revealing the truth to others. Maybe to protect ourselves, or not have the other person run away in embarrassment or fear if they unearth what you’re hiding. But is that a healthy way of living? Should you have this tomb of secrets that no one else should know about beside you? Or should you find someone capable of knowing the real you?  Continue reading

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