Episode 73: Interracial Relationships & “The Black Experience”: Should You Marry Someone That May Not Understand Your Struggle?

On Episode 22, we talked about the general tropes of the topic of interracial relationships, but in this episode we go deeper. A video recently made its way across the internet and launched a hot debate all across the World Wide Web and even made its way onto network TV for further debating. Can a white woman ever understand the struggles of her black man? It was a great question posed, but an even greater question to try to answer. On the show is a couple who are no strangers to the topic of race, identity and struggle. It was great listening to their stories and informing us that life, especially for an interracial couple, is anything but just black & white.  Continue reading

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Episode 72: “His & Hers”…and then there’s Me: The Other Woman (Pt.2) w/guest Relationship & Communication Coach Jen

The 2nd part we feel was needed because while the 1st part was more of the glitz and glamour and “come up” as a side chick, there are the affairs that much more discreet. Not because of wrong doing or naughtiness, but because of how intimate some of these trysts can be. They can be emotionally rewarding, lovingly passionate, and crushing to the soul all at the same time. Our guest today is a brave soul who wanted to tell us about how a mistress REALLY is, and that it’s not so black and white as you may think. Trust us, your mind will more open after this amazing interview.  Continue reading

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Episode 71: His & Hers…and Then There’s Me, The Other Woman (Pt.1) w/guests The Real Side Chicks of Charlotte

Haven’t done these in a while but yes, it’s a two parter and it’s much needed especially for the topic at hand. Side Chick, Mistress, The Other Woman, “Daddy’s Friend”, however you want to call it, this subject has been on the rise in the past couple of years. From comical memes to network tv, the Side chick is large & in charge. So Jenn & I wanted to get the skinny of the current climate of canoodling is going on these streets. Who better to ask then the hotly anticipated Septuplets making their way from your ears to your TV screens, The Real Side Chicks of Charlotte. That’s right – Brittany, Dianna, Jullisa, Lynette, Shador, Storm, & Tiffany are gonna give you the REAL (just like their show) on how they became side chicks, why being one should be looked at as a positive, and no shame to be gettin’ them COINZ. What are you waiting for! Listen up, you might be surprised!  Continue reading

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Episode 70: Should You Pry Into An Ex’s Life?

Sometimes after a breakup, regardless of how it went down, a piece of us can’t help but wonder how the other person is doing now-a-days. It should be expected though; the person did occupy time in our lives so our brain can’t help but do a little flashback. But, other times, we actually go and seek what the person is up to. Should we go back to the past or should we just move forward? What “exactly” are we looking for? Closure? Will we know if or when we find it? Will we be prepared for whatever the outcome is or will we regret snooping around? As they say, “Curiosity killed the cat” but what they rarely say is the res of the phrase “satisfaction brought it back.” Should we pry to bring satisfaction to ourselves and fulfill the selfish need or just let things be? Can we truly not help ourselves? Take a listen and see what we said!  Continue reading

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Episode 69: What a JERK – A Mass Debate Among Friends w/guests Joseph from Poli Games & ‘That Horror Chick’ Aimee

Are you “Master of your domain?” Are you “Queen of the Castle?” For anybody not familiar with lines from one of the best episodes in television history, this episode we’re talking about Masturbation. *BE WARNED PERSONAL FRIENDS OF THE SHOW* You might not want to hear the stuff Jenn & I talk about. You may not want to know us THAT intimately – and that’s fine. Just giving you a heads up! But yeah, this topic is an important topic to discuss and we most certainly had the best guests to lighten the mood on such a taboo subject. But there lies the rub. Why is this topic taboo? Everybody’s it, right? So why are we afraid to talk about it? Why do stereotypes about it exist? Why is it frown upon that guys do it, but women get praised because “allegedly” there aren’t any men who can satisfy her so she has to go it alone? Is Masturbation a sin? Can you masturbation too much? Shout to Joseph from Poli Games & The GuysWeFucked Podcast for inspiration for this episode!  Continue reading

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Episode 68: Dating After Divorce w/ “Plushy” Model Jenica JPoetry

A much needed sequel from Episode 21, we revisit Jenica and her standing after being divorced for a year. We go in depth to see how it’s been back in the world as a single woman, how dating has been after being promised a lifetime partner, and also if she even has TIME to date because of all the projects she’s involved in! Tune in and listen to the episode now!  Continue reading

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Episode 67: Falling in Love with Potential – Cultivate or Cut it OFF?

You see that your partner has potential but it hasn’t fully blossomed yet. Do you wait for the day for it to bloom or should you just leave and find someone else who’s already past that stage of development? There’s a saying that goes “good things come to those who wait”, but can you afford to now a days? Are they worth it? Continue reading

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Episode 66: Finding The One After “The One” w/guest Jorge

If you’ve ever been in love, “I think s/he’s the one!” might’ve been said once or twice in your life. You’ve probably also said “Man, I THOUGHT they were the one” a couple times too. We’ve all been there. When the stars align and you think to yourself, “this is it… I found them.” Then something happens and *POOF* the stars burst into a million fragments (just like your heart) and your future life ceases to exist. You’re stuck in limbo, and you don’t know how to move forward, and you will most certainly never love again. That is until someone else comes along and rewrites your purpose in life and makes you believe again. How do you get from point A to B? How does the new ‘One’ makes us love again? How did we get the previous ‘One’ sooo WRONG? 3 Trains Of Thought on this episode where I had a ‘One’, Jenn has had a ‘One’ & considers her boo THE ‘One’, and our guest and a ‘One’ and married his new One. Please take heed as our guest tells his story from downtrodden to triumphant about how he got from one ‘One’ to the next and how he’s never looked back. Also he gives us advice on what to do when we’re in our own limbo as well. Take a listen!  Continue reading

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Episode 65: Should Someone’s Past Affect Your Future With Them?

We always try and see the good in people and try not to judge people on the chapter we walked in on in their lives. For the most part, it goes well, but sometimes a person’s past no longer wants to stay in the past causing a conversation to be had. Depending on what the issue was (or is), do you stay with that person through thick or thin regardless of the issue? Or do you feel you have the right to walk away and be like “nah, I’m good?” Would you feel guilty or feel you are in your right? Tune in and see what we think!  Continue reading

Episode 64 – Spare Feelings or To Tell The Truth?

Have you ever been in a situation where a lie was better then telling the truth? Of COURSE.. we ALL have, but was it worth it? Depends doesn’t? Where is our moral compass in these situations? Why can’t we just let it out? Is it because we care or is the consequence of the truth too much to bear? Today Jenn (She’s BACK!) and I discuss this topic to see if whether we should sparing someone’s feelings for the betterment of the relationship.  Continue reading

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