Ep #140: Winter is Coming: What We Would Tell Our Twenty Something Selves & Millennials

On this episode we discuss what we would tell our twenty something selves. And, what we would tell to the millennials who are currently the center of attention regarding the current state of our society. In the spirit of an upcoming New Year, we are reflecting on what we would tell our twenty something selves in order to embrace our continuous growth and enlightenment; and to encourage our listeners to grow, evolve, embrace change, and not feel bad about occasionally schooling a millennial or two. :). Share your thoughts below 

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Ep # 139 Miss Fix It

In this episode we are discussing men with baggage and the women who try to “fix” them or continue to deal with the baggage for a long period of time. We discuss the toxic myth of, “ride or die chick”, and the difference between leaving and loyalty. Join us and leave your thoughts below. 

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Ep #138: Chick Flicks? or Man Picks?

Chick Flick? or Man Picks?  What’s your favorite? Why do they need to be categorized? Do men really enjoy ” Chick Flicks” ? and Do women actually enjoy ” Man picks”? Besides figuring out where to eat , picking a movie always seems to always be a tough decision for Netflix and Chill nights or Date night. Come hear what we have to say about our favorites in these categories and what our other listeners have said. You know we are big movie buff’s here at BLB, Come join in the convo! Continue reading

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Ep# 137 .. And That’s What I Call Growth

In this episode we our discussing moving on with life after a breakup and how the break up can affect your personal growth and development. Often times we think we have stopped growing, learning, and developing because we are adults but like a flower if you no longer take care of yourself you die. You can be physiologically alive but mentally and spiritually dead. From our discussion we want you to learn or keep in mind to continue to shine, thrive, and be your best self through life and loves greatest battles. Share your stories below!

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Ep #136 Hey Zaddy! w/ guest Aimee

Our friend Aimee stops in for a visit to discuss the ” Taboo” topic of DD/LG. Dominant Daddy/ Little Girl relationships. We talk about this community of women who love dating men who are literally old enough to be their ” Daddy”. Also how the word “Daddy” doesn’t necessarily mean father and how it is interchangeable. Come here our thoughts and Aimee’s account of dating an older man. Would you date an older man? If you’re a older man would you date an younger woman?  Have you ? Come join in the discussion and share your thoughts below!  Continue reading

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Ep #135:Intel into Incels

Hey Lovers this week’s episode was developed after a recent Episode of Law and Order SVU.  We didn’t know that INCELS were given a name and even a movement. Even though there is a an extreme side to this dive in with us as we give you the intel on these Incels. A group of men in an online community that hate women and themselves because they can’t get women to have sex with them. There are even extremes where the men have taken what they feel is theirs by way of rape. They call the men who they think are hogging all the sex “Chads” and the women who ‘lust’ after them “Stacys”. See what are opinion is on this intense topic and weigh in below to give us yours!

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Ep# 134 Keeping Things HOT ..’ Cause Winter in Coming’ w/ Special Guest Marie-Claire Thauvette

Have things in the bedroom started getting a tad chilly? Do you want to keep that spark alive? Join your favs from BLB as we sit down with a our new Canadian friend Marie-Claire Thauvette , a Canadian relationship coach, AASECT certified sexual educator, and woman on a mission to teach individuals and couples alike about the power of intimacy and communication. She is also the author of Honeymoon Playbook, a book for both newlyweds and longtime partners alike, teaching couples how to light a romantic fire in their relationship. Join us as we discuss her book and her thoughts about why sex is important and tips and tricks to keep things hot and toasty in these cold winter months approaching us! What are some things you have done to keep things fresh? Join in the conversation below! Continue reading

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Ep# 133 10 Things I Hate About Your Boo

So you finally met your bestie’s Boo and he or she is HORRIBLE!!  Now what?  Or Your Best friend tells you that even though you think you’ve found Mr. Right , they feel like perhaps he’s Mr. Right Now..

How do we handle these situations? Are we to choose? Join Us this week as we dive in to this topic. How have you handled the situation? Tell us your thoughts and stories below!

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DATING: 9-1-1

 

During our last episode we spoke with life coach, and relationship expert, Georgia Woodbine, and discussed her book about finding the right man (we posted to the site), as well as, the ends and outs of dating.  One question I forgot to ask her is what she thought about a woman dating outside of her race.  Should she go outside her norm meaning just attributes and checklist or should she go allll the way outside of her norm when different cultures, races, ethnicities, etc. if she really never considered it before?  I personally believe people should date who they are attracted to, and that includes physical attributes, and the personality.  I believe if a person gives someone a shot who is from a different race, culture, ethnicity, etc. and those two people realize their beliefs are not in line, then keep it moving.  But at least give it a shot.

What do you guys think?

Ep #132 How to Attract the Right Man into your Life with Georgia Woodbine

Join us and our guest Georgia Woodbine as she breaks down the Do’s and Don’ts to attracting the right person into your life. Georgia Woodbine is a life coach and public speaker who helps people change  their lives on a daily basis. Come engage and get some pointers! Do you agree with what our guest is saying? How did you attract the right person..Join in the conversation below!

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Ep #131 Podcast Politics and Going Ghost but not St. Patrick

Come chat with us this week as we discuss our Sex Expo experience , A day filled with Dildos , Chastity Belts and Tacos.  We also have a conversation about the recent controversy on the Interwebs about the hosts of ‘The Guys We F@$ked’ Podcast who are being called Racists for fetishizing black men. Do we as Podcast hosts have a duty to not spread negativity? or Is it on some First Amendment Freedom of Speech and what not?? We also dive in to Ghosting! What is it? What are the effects of it? How to avoid it? Let us know how you are feeling about these topics weigh in below!

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Ep #130 It’s All About the Benjamins Baby!…. Or Is It?

Join us this week for our conversation about one of the most difficult things to talk about with your partner… MONEY!.  Who’s got it ? Who doesn’t ? Who should pay? How to split the bills when cohabitating?  We dive in to all the ins and outs and we will discuss how to navigate this tricky conversation. No matter how hard  this conversation is to have it’s a must. Better to know before it’s too late. Check it out and Share your comments below and let us know how you had this conversation or if you need to … You’ve come to the right place.

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Ep# 129: Opening Ourselves Up to New Possibilities….Literally

Open Mind, open heart….open relationship?”. Join us this week as we discuss whether sharing is caring or just plain crazy.  If you are in a relationship do you feel like it’s okay that your partner steps out on the relationship as long as he or she follows the ” rules”. Hear the listener’s thoughts and come and share some of yours.  Continue reading

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Ep# 128 How Many Red Flags Do You Need to See Before You Wave Your White Flag?

Join us this week as we discuss red flags. What is a red flag? What are your red flags? Our Facebook friends share their thoughts on red flags.  Can you get passed these red flags? Will they change if you get married? Probably not, but come hear our thoughts on the sunject matter. Maybe your partner is rude to the waiters? Maybe they have a secretive past? Maybe they like cats ? What are your red flags? Share below !   Continue reading

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Ep# 127: Intimate Hang Out Session w/ Joshua Shea: Porn Addiction

Join us this week as we chat it up with Joshua Shea , Former politician, Magazine Publisher and Porn Addict. Joshua shares his story of ups and downs and offers a candid look on that taboo topic of Porn addiction. What constitutes addiction? Can women be addicts too? How Porn addiction affects families? Check out this eye opening conversation and join in the conversation about this topic with your fellow listeners below!  Continue reading

Ep# 126: Big Bang Theory: Does Size Matter? Or is it Mind Over Matter?

Join BedLoveBeyond this week as the ladies chat it up about if the ‘myth is true” and whether it’s the motion in the ocean or the size of the boat. Does Penis size really matter? Is there such thing as too big? or too small? Also find out what “BDE” is and if you or someone you know has it! Fellas find out what women are actually saying about this taboo subject.

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Ep #125 Tell Me Lies ..Tell Me Sweet Little Lies.. : Do White Lies Matter ?

Ever told a tiny little ” white” lie to avoid hurting someone’s feelings? Your Partner asks you ,” Do I look fat in this ?”  What do you say ?? We all know sometimes the truth hurts, but maybe it’s our delivery. Have a chat with April and Jenn to discuss which white lies should never be told, Which one’s are OK, and how to change the dialog so that you can be honest without being hurtful. Have you ever told a white lie to avoid something ? Did it ever backfire? Join in the conversation below and share your stories!  Continue reading

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Ep #124 There’s No Crying in Baseball: Toxic Masculinity is in a League of Its Own

Join us this week as we dive into the popular topic of TOXIC MASCULINITY! We talk about how society, media and general upbringing has shaped how people define a man and how men define themselves. Also how society defines masculinity with exaggerated masculine traits like being violent, unemotional, sexually aggressive , etc.  We talk about how we as women can be change agents in changing the conversation with our partners and children to open up doors for positive emotions as opposed to just negative ones!

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Ep #123 The Man and the Woman in the Mirror: Vanity in Relationships

In this episode of BLB we discuss whether or not it’s okay to ask someone you are dating to change something about themselves? Whether it be weight , clothes, the style of hair, too much or not enough make-up, is it ever okay to ask someone to change?  Are these things deal breakers ? Is weight the only taboo topic? Is it okay to say” Hey babe, you’ve gained a few pounds, get on that”!? We discuss healthy ways to have these conversations.   We all know no one is perfect , but how far have you gone to try and change your partner or what have they asked you to change? What did you think about that ?? Join in the conversation below !  Continue reading

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Ep #122 MEET YOU AT THE ALTAR OR MEET YOU AT THE CLUB? .. ARE YOU MARRIAGE MATERIAL ?

In this Episode of BLB , the ladies discuss what makes a man or a woman marraige material. Women and Men are quick to say they can’t find someone to settle down with but forget to ask themselves, ” What I am bringing to the table?”. Women are not going to take the womanizer male seriously if he like to put out that playboy persona. Same for ladies who want to bare it all with out leaving anything to the imagination. Does this get you your Happily Ever After or just the Ex to the Next ? Come discuss with us and leave your thoughts and comments below. We love you hear from YOU!!  Continue reading

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Ep #121 It’s Allegedly A Man’s World: Are You Attracted to Sexist Men? w/ Brigid

Join us this week ,with our returning guest Brigid, as we talk about the theory that some women are actually attracted to men who are sexist. We debunk studies and talk about the difference of being sexist, chauvinistic, and an alpha male, and whether or not us women find that sexy. What do you find attractive?  Is what he’s saying being sexist ? What can we do as women to change the conversation? Join us in the discussion!

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Ep #120 What’s Good for the Goose, Isn’t Always Good for the Gander

Come join us as we introduce our new co- host Miss April Speaks and dive in to dating at a certain age. Is dating in your 20’s like dating in your 30″s ? Do things get better? , Worse? , Easier? Come Chat with us!  Comment below to join in the conversation !!  Continue reading

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#119 – Letting Go & Moving On

“There’s this meme that reads “Sometimes holding on does more damage than letting go”. In this episode we explore that statement and try to answer why we hold on to the things that have hurt us. What are we trying to prove? What exactly can’t we get over? Join us as we attempt to let go and move on mentally, spiritually, and physically from things that can hold us back from becoming better people.”

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#118 – 4:44: The Story of MJ – An Intervention w/April, Brigid & Randy

12 episodes ago, a conversation started. Today, we (finally) have it. Tune in to hear how this band of brother (and sisters, literally and figuratively) try to bring hope back into the life of a jaded spirit. You don’t want to miss this informative, important and invaluable conversation dealing with relationships, dating, and personal struggles. Grab YOUR friends and listen in. Maybe it might spark a dialogue within your group to share your stories with one another. Enjoy and educate!  Continue reading

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A Tad Numb.

So I feel I needed to purge this information somewhere, and what a better place than here. If you are an avid listener, 1. Thank you, but 2 you’ve probably heard me (Jenn) talk about “restraining order boy”. In short we were childhood friends, grew apart distance wise and reconnected over the common grounds that he needed open heart surgery and it was something I had already been through. Long story short we were coochie crunch for months until he got a bit possessive and threatened my life in which he became…R.O.B.

Well this morning I found out he passed away. I’m not sure from what, I can only imagine a drug overdose. And although we have years of history and what not… I feel nothing.

The Pisces in me should me emoting all over the place, but I literally just feel numb about it. Like I legally can’t pay my respects, but do I even want to? I definitely never hated him. I felt disappointment in him and the fact he was given a second chance at life and fucks it up, also that he was someone I bent over backwards for and his rage or his dark side still caused him to say and do horrible things.

As a mental health professional I should have known what I was dealing with , well, I did and ignored it. Anyways. That’s my bag to hold for the day. I don’t know if the courts will contact me or if I have to notify anyone. I’m still kind of processing.

Thanks for listening. Peace!

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