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Ep #140: Winter is Coming: What We Would Tell Our Twenty Something Selves & Millennials

On this episode we discuss what we would tell our twenty something selves. And, what we would tell to the millennials who are currently the center of attention regarding the current state of our society. In the spirit of an upcoming New Year, we are reflecting on what we would tell our twenty something selves in order to embrace our continuous growth and enlightenment; and to encourage our listeners to grow, evolve, embrace change, and not feel bad about occasionally schooling a millennial or two. :). Share your thoughts below 

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Ep # 139 Miss Fix It

In this episode we are discussing men with baggage and the women who try to “fix” them or continue to deal with the baggage for a long period of time. We discuss the toxic myth of, “ride or die chick”, and the difference between leaving and loyalty. Join us and leave your thoughts below. 

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Ep #135:Intel into Incels

Hey Lovers this week’s episode was developed after a recent Episode of Law and Order SVU.  We didn’t know that INCELS were given a name and even a movement. Even though there is a an extreme side to this dive in with us as we give you the intel on these Incels. A group of men in an online community that hate women and themselves because they can’t get women to have sex with them. There are even extremes where the men have taken what they feel is theirs by way of rape. They call the men who they think are hogging all the sex “Chads” and the women who ‘lust’ after them “Stacys”. See what are opinion is on this intense topic and weigh in below to give us yours!

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Ep# 134 Keeping Things HOT ..’ Cause Winter in Coming’ w/ Special Guest Marie-Claire Thauvette

Have things in the bedroom started getting a tad chilly? Do you want to keep that spark alive? Join your favs from BLB as we sit down with a our new Canadian friend Marie-Claire Thauvette , a Canadian relationship coach, AASECT certified sexual educator, and woman on a mission to teach individuals and couples alike about the power of intimacy and communication. She is also the author of Honeymoon Playbook, a book for both newlyweds and longtime partners alike, teaching couples how to light a romantic fire in their relationship. Join us as we discuss her book and her thoughts about why sex is important and tips and tricks to keep things hot and toasty in these cold winter months approaching us! What are some things you have done to keep things fresh? Join in the conversation below! Continue reading

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Ep# 133 10 Things I Hate About Your Boo

So you finally met your bestie’s Boo and he or she is HORRIBLE!!  Now what?  Or Your Best friend tells you that even though you think you’ve found Mr. Right , they feel like perhaps he’s Mr. Right Now..

How do we handle these situations? Are we to choose? Join Us this week as we dive in to this topic. How have you handled the situation? Tell us your thoughts and stories below!

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Ep #132 How to Attract the Right Man into your Life with Georgia Woodbine

Join us and our guest Georgia Woodbine as she breaks down the Do’s and Don’ts to attracting the right person into your life. Georgia Woodbine is a life coach and public speaker who helps people change  their lives on a daily basis. Come engage and get some pointers! Do you agree with what our guest is saying? How did you attract the right person..Join in the conversation below!

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Ep# 129: Opening Ourselves Up to New Possibilities….Literally

Open Mind, open heart….open relationship?”. Join us this week as we discuss whether sharing is caring or just plain crazy.  If you are in a relationship do you feel like it’s okay that your partner steps out on the relationship as long as he or she follows the ” rules”. Hear the listener’s thoughts and come and share some of yours.  Continue reading

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Ep# 128 How Many Red Flags Do You Need to See Before You Wave Your White Flag?

Join us this week as we discuss red flags. What is a red flag? What are your red flags? Our Facebook friends share their thoughts on red flags.  Can you get passed these red flags? Will they change if you get married? Probably not, but come hear our thoughts on the sunject matter. Maybe your partner is rude to the waiters? Maybe they have a secretive past? Maybe they like cats ? What are your red flags? Share below !   Continue reading

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Ep# 126: Big Bang Theory: Does Size Matter? Or is it Mind Over Matter?

Join BedLoveBeyond this week as the ladies chat it up about if the ‘myth is true” and whether it’s the motion in the ocean or the size of the boat. Does Penis size really matter? Is there such thing as too big? or too small? Also find out what “BDE” is and if you or someone you know has it! Fellas find out what women are actually saying about this taboo subject.

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Ep #124 There’s No Crying in Baseball: Toxic Masculinity is in a League of Its Own

Join us this week as we dive into the popular topic of TOXIC MASCULINITY! We talk about how society, media and general upbringing has shaped how people define a man and how men define themselves. Also how society defines masculinity with exaggerated masculine traits like being violent, unemotional, sexually aggressive , etc.  We talk about how we as women can be change agents in changing the conversation with our partners and children to open up doors for positive emotions as opposed to just negative ones!

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Ep #123 The Man and the Woman in the Mirror: Vanity in Relationships

In this episode of BLB we discuss whether or not it’s okay to ask someone you are dating to change something about themselves? Whether it be weight , clothes, the style of hair, too much or not enough make-up, is it ever okay to ask someone to change?  Are these things deal breakers ? Is weight the only taboo topic? Is it okay to say” Hey babe, you’ve gained a few pounds, get on that”!? We discuss healthy ways to have these conversations.   We all know no one is perfect , but how far have you gone to try and change your partner or what have they asked you to change? What did you think about that ?? Join in the conversation below !  Continue reading

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Ep #122 MEET YOU AT THE ALTAR OR MEET YOU AT THE CLUB? .. ARE YOU MARRIAGE MATERIAL ?

In this Episode of BLB , the ladies discuss what makes a man or a woman marraige material. Women and Men are quick to say they can’t find someone to settle down with but forget to ask themselves, ” What I am bringing to the table?”. Women are not going to take the womanizer male seriously if he like to put out that playboy persona. Same for ladies who want to bare it all with out leaving anything to the imagination. Does this get you your Happily Ever After or just the Ex to the Next ? Come discuss with us and leave your thoughts and comments below. We love you hear from YOU!!  Continue reading

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Ep #121 It’s Allegedly A Man’s World: Are You Attracted to Sexist Men? w/ Brigid

Join us this week ,with our returning guest Brigid, as we talk about the theory that some women are actually attracted to men who are sexist. We debunk studies and talk about the difference of being sexist, chauvinistic, and an alpha male, and whether or not us women find that sexy. What do you find attractive?  Is what he’s saying being sexist ? What can we do as women to change the conversation? Join us in the discussion!

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Ep #120 What’s Good for the Goose, Isn’t Always Good for the Gander

Come join us as we introduce our new co- host Miss April Speaks and dive in to dating at a certain age. Is dating in your 20’s like dating in your 30″s ? Do things get better? , Worse? , Easier? Come Chat with us!  Comment below to join in the conversation !!  Continue reading

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#119 – Letting Go & Moving On

“There’s this meme that reads “Sometimes holding on does more damage than letting go”. In this episode we explore that statement and try to answer why we hold on to the things that have hurt us. What are we trying to prove? What exactly can’t we get over? Join us as we attempt to let go and move on mentally, spiritually, and physically from things that can hold us back from becoming better people.”

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#117 – Keeping Relationships Fresh w/guest “The Rock God of Podcasting” Charles Mcfall

In this week’s episode Jenn meets the Rock God of Podcasting, Finally! and we all chat it up about how to keep a relationship fresh. The important things to do that will keep your significant other feeling all the feels they felt on day one, even if its day 5236! Charles helped us break down keeping things fresh before you start a family with little one and after.  Also howto notice and discover the root of what your partner really wants and needs from you.  So check it out, and let us know what are your thoughts , tricks and tips on keeping it fresh!  Continue reading

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Episode 115: Can You Be/Stay in a Celibate Relationship?

How much is sex important to you? To some, it’s MONUMENTAL. To others a big MEH. Experts say sex is important in a relationship. Others say SCREW the experts (no pun intended). What do you when confronted with the fact someone you’re newly dating tells you they’re celibate? Do you stay or skidaddle? What do you if you’re in the middle of a relationship and your partner decides that they want to become celibate? Do you join in or jump off at the next exit? Waiting til marriage to some sounds wonderful, but others don’t know when that big day is – so is it worth the wait, to wait? Tune in to see what we think about this!  Continue reading

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Episode 109: Naked & Afraid – How Do We Date & Mate In a #MeToo World? w/ Sexologist & Psychotherapist Dr. Kristie Overstreet

From Ansari to “I’m Sorry”, there’s been a range of the good, the bad, and the ugly pertaining to the #MeToo Movement. The one thing lacking is sort of a “rules and regulations” to the conversation. How do we date in a #Metoo world? How do we touch/make love to a suitor? Can we still mimic what they do in the movies or is that outdated? Can a person be “too” careful enough to ruin the mood? No one wants to make anyone uncomfortable so how do we go about interacting with someone in a romantic manner? We got a returning guest to hopefully help us make sense of this new world we live in. Tune in to see what we came up with!  Continue reading

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Episode 97: He Said, She Said & the Gray Area of Consent w/ Miss April Speaks

Rape. Regret. Consent. Coerce. Harass. Her ass. Misconduct. Misunderstood. Yes. NO. #MeToo. Men too. These words have been on the forefront of every blog, news ticker, morning radio show, and internet timeline for the past 5 months. We thought it was time for us to give in our own 2 cents on the matter. Join us as we discuss the serious matters of Today the only way BedLoveBeyond knows how: with Laughter, Listening, and of course Learning. Tune in as we try to tackle and make sense of what’s going on in today’s climate together.  Continue reading

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Episode 89: Breaking Free & Taking A Walk on The Wild Side w/Naughty Lifestyle Expert Sienna Sinclaire

“Timid”, “tepid”, “tame”. Every heard these words before? How bout “reserved”, “restrictive”, “restrained”? Yeah? Cool. Now, ever heard these words used to describe how you are sexually? Yikes. Don’t fret, BedLoveBeyond has got you covered. For some reason, when it comes to sex we as a people are very modest. Yes, there are exceptions to the rule, but overall we can be quite the bashful bunny when it comes to being venerable in that arena. I’m not talking about getting freaky with strangers & one night stands, but more so long standing relationships and even in marriages (with kids!). We feel, well… “naughty” about being naughty! Huh? How can you not be comfortable with your partner or the person who has pledged to stay with you until they die? Who else would come in line after that for you to go “yeah, okay, I can bring down my wall for this person”? For this ep, we wanted to free and talk about the naughty side of life and some of the things you can get yourself into if you want go that route. Listen in and add some spice in your life!  Continue reading

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Episode 86: Bring Me a Higher Love – Exploring Intimacy Farther then The Physical w/ Relationship Educator Yanni Brown

With dating, especially at the beginning, people tend to rush through the pleasantries and only want get to the “good” part. Not pointing fingers or anything, sex is AWESOME, but is that really the thing we should be focusing on? What happened to being the Tortoise instead of the Hare? What about the slow build? I’m not even talking about foreplay (although that’s nice too!). What happened to getting to know a person first? Getting to know the Ins and Outs of them as opposed to just going in and out of them? There are other ways of getting to know a person before you do the horizontal polka. That’s where our special guest steps in. Yanni Brown, relationship educator, lets us know the many ways of being intimate before we even get take our clothes off.  Continue reading

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Episode 83: Would You Ever Sleep With A Guy…While Your Man Was Watching In Front of You? Wait, What the CUCK?!

Hi-dee-ho, neighbor! Talk about a topic, eh? What in the world?! But yeah, we went there. It was an episode we wanted to do back in the early days of BLB. After watching an episode of “You’re The Worst” about the subject we thought it should be revisited, for the first time. But what say you? Could you have sex with a person while your signficiant other looked on? Weird scenario right? Trust me, I hear you. But there is a culture that does this very thing. Some of them find it even empowering and brings the relationships closer! Who woulda thunk? Could you do it or is it too weird for you? Or maybe, you can’t WAIT to do it but don’t know how to bring it up to your partner? Now THERE’S a twist! Listen in to see what our answers are!  Continue reading

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Episode 79: Being A Late Bloomer: The Growing Pains & The Wonder Years w/guest “The Rock God of Podcasting” Charles McFall

That awkward moment when everyone around you has done everything (TWICE) and you’re just standing there like *DERP*. Welcome to Late Blooming, population YOU. Yup, late blooming can seem like an isolated event. Here you are in your adolescence and your friends are all ahead and ‘advanced’, talking about things you thought you would only get to experience at 30! It’s such a bummer to see your peers (seemingly) so well rounded and mature and you’re still twiddling your thumbs in the corner because you haven’t been knighted with the fabled “magical mature baton”.

But what we realize in insight is that there is no baton, and maybe just wasn’t your time to mature yet. Everybody goes at a different pace for sure, but at the time life is in a vacuum so you want everything to happen to you now just like your friends. Some are lucky, but some are totally not. Today is one of those stories, with many hurdles and delays to “Bloomdom”. The Rock God of Podcasting Charles McFall shares his story of being a late bloomer and overcoming adversity and still being able to achieve what most late bloomers can only hope to accomplish. Strap into your seat, cause you’re in for a great show!  Continue reading

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Episode 78: “I’m Tired”, She Said – What’s The Issue with Today’s Man? w/ guest (& Author) Elliott Katz

Whether it’s through song, poetry, spoken word or tweet, women are letting their feelings known about the opposite sex – and it’s not good. Time after time another declaration is heard from the masses claiming that men aren’t doing their “job” and “real” men are few and far between. Is this claim real? What HAS happened to men and is there a way to fix the problem? Listen as we try to get to the bottom of this for all (Wo)mankind!  Continue reading

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Episode 76: Friends w/ Benefits: Should You Ever Turn Your Situationship Into A Relationship? w/ guest Sexologist & Psychotherapist Kristie Overstreet

Things are good with you two. Actually, pretty great. You hang out, talk about everyday shit, and every so often when you’re feeling frisky – you two have sex. Because you guys are friends, you know each other.  You know what gets her mad, she knows what makes you laugh out loud. With the added layer of sex though, now you guys know each other. She knows what makes you feel masculine, and you know how to make her feel special. Now that’s what I call BFF’s, right? But, why stop there? I mean, if you guys are great friends and you two have amazing sex… what’s to stop from taking the next step? Aren’t you basically “together” anyway? What could go wrong? The three of us are gonna hash it out. Tune in and see what we come up with!    Continue reading

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