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Ep #152 Turn Your Lights Down Low : The Effects of Gaslighting

Join us this week as we discuss the exciting and yet pretty fucking crazy concept of Gaslighting. Where did it come from? Is it happening to me? Have I ever done it?  , and of course How to avoid it!!  If you still are not sure what it is.. We tell you some movies that were clear indicators of Gaslighting .So let us know where you stand on the topic.. Have you been gaslit before? Did you do it to someone and didn’t realize? Join the convo below!!

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Ep #151 Tempted to Touch: How to Resist the Cheating Temptation in a Long Tern Relationship with Special Guest The Rock God of Podcasting Charles Mcfall.

Join us this week with our returning guest Charles Mcfall. See what he has been up to! Catch up with us and join in the conversation as we talk about how temptation in a long term relationship is still there and how we overcome it. Is it possible? Also we talk basic relationship maintenance and survival . Let us know your thoughts below!!

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Ep #148: Time Waits For No One

Time.. Time.. Time.. See what’s become of me… This Hazy shade of winter is wrapping up and spring will be sprung…all in good time, But how much time is actually appropriate. Come chat with us as we explore dating and the progression of a relationship. A relationship grows just like the flowers bloom.. But how long should it take before you give someone a key to your place, move in, get engaged, have sex, or even get married..Join us and share below your experiences.

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Ep #144 What are You Offended by Today? W/ Guest TJ Sopoci

Check us out this week as we are joined by our special guest TJ Sopoci from the Chicago Based Podcast Menage-A-Pod.  We collab to dive in to all of this week’s hot topics that seem to have everyone’s panties in a bunch. Miss April is back this week to discuss her POV with the aftermath of Surviving R Kelly, and we all try to figure out what was so offensive that has men wanting to #MUTEGILLETTE. We love a good beard, but really fellas?? And if the week couldn’t get any weirder there was a rumble when Louis CK was being Louis CK. We talk about what responsibilities comedians have and if they owe anyone an apology. #sorrynotsorry. Check us out and let us know what offended you this week??

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Ep #142: Holiday Episode Part 2: Deuces! People, Places and Things We Think Should Go Ghost for 2019.

Join us for our end of the year wrap up as we talk about what needs to stay it’s ass in 2018, and what needs to grow for the new year.  Fake butts, Fake friends, Toxic people and relationships. Will you read more? Eat more veggies? Watch more movies? What are your resolutions? Hear ours and share your thoughts below!

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Ep #141 Holiday Episode Part 1: Meet Me Under the Mistletoe

Join us this week as we discuss how to navigate the holidays with your family and your significant other. April gives great advice on how to avoid those sticky questions from your family. We also talk about gift giving , What to expect and what not to expect! Join in the convo and let us know how your holiday went below!

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Ep #138: Chick Flicks? or Man Picks?

Chick Flick? or Man Picks?  What’s your favorite? Why do they need to be categorized? Do men really enjoy ” Chick Flicks” ? and Do women actually enjoy ” Man picks”? Besides figuring out where to eat , picking a movie always seems to always be a tough decision for Netflix and Chill nights or Date night. Come hear what we have to say about our favorites in these categories and what our other listeners have said. You know we are big movie buff’s here at BLB, Come join in the convo! Continue reading

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Ep# 137 .. And That’s What I Call Growth

In this episode we our discussing moving on with life after a breakup and how the break up can affect your personal growth and development. Often times we think we have stopped growing, learning, and developing because we are adults but like a flower if you no longer take care of yourself you die. You can be physiologically alive but mentally and spiritually dead. From our discussion we want you to learn or keep in mind to continue to shine, thrive, and be your best self through life and loves greatest battles. Share your stories below!

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Ep #132 How to Attract the Right Man into your Life with Georgia Woodbine

Join us and our guest Georgia Woodbine as she breaks down the Do’s and Don’ts to attracting the right person into your life. Georgia Woodbine is a life coach and public speaker who helps people change  their lives on a daily basis. Come engage and get some pointers! Do you agree with what our guest is saying? How did you attract the right person..Join in the conversation below!

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Ep #131 Podcast Politics and Going Ghost but not St. Patrick

Come chat with us this week as we discuss our Sex Expo experience , A day filled with Dildos , Chastity Belts and Tacos.  We also have a conversation about the recent controversy on the Interwebs about the hosts of ‘The Guys We F@$ked’ Podcast who are being called Racists for fetishizing black men. Do we as Podcast hosts have a duty to not spread negativity? or Is it on some First Amendment Freedom of Speech and what not?? We also dive in to Ghosting! What is it? What are the effects of it? How to avoid it? Let us know how you are feeling about these topics weigh in below!

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Ep# 129: Opening Ourselves Up to New Possibilities….Literally

Open Mind, open heart….open relationship?”. Join us this week as we discuss whether sharing is caring or just plain crazy.  If you are in a relationship do you feel like it’s okay that your partner steps out on the relationship as long as he or she follows the ” rules”. Hear the listener’s thoughts and come and share some of yours.  Continue reading

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Ep# 128 How Many Red Flags Do You Need to See Before You Wave Your White Flag?

Join us this week as we discuss red flags. What is a red flag? What are your red flags? Our Facebook friends share their thoughts on red flags.  Can you get passed these red flags? Will they change if you get married? Probably not, but come hear our thoughts on the sunject matter. Maybe your partner is rude to the waiters? Maybe they have a secretive past? Maybe they like cats ? What are your red flags? Share below !   Continue reading

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Ep# 126: Big Bang Theory: Does Size Matter? Or is it Mind Over Matter?

Join BedLoveBeyond this week as the ladies chat it up about if the ‘myth is true” and whether it’s the motion in the ocean or the size of the boat. Does Penis size really matter? Is there such thing as too big? or too small? Also find out what “BDE” is and if you or someone you know has it! Fellas find out what women are actually saying about this taboo subject.

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Ep #125 Tell Me Lies ..Tell Me Sweet Little Lies.. : Do White Lies Matter ?

Ever told a tiny little ” white” lie to avoid hurting someone’s feelings? Your Partner asks you ,” Do I look fat in this ?”  What do you say ?? We all know sometimes the truth hurts, but maybe it’s our delivery. Have a chat with April and Jenn to discuss which white lies should never be told, Which one’s are OK, and how to change the dialog so that you can be honest without being hurtful. Have you ever told a white lie to avoid something ? Did it ever backfire? Join in the conversation below and share your stories!  Continue reading

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Ep #124 There’s No Crying in Baseball: Toxic Masculinity is in a League of Its Own

Join us this week as we dive into the popular topic of TOXIC MASCULINITY! We talk about how society, media and general upbringing has shaped how people define a man and how men define themselves. Also how society defines masculinity with exaggerated masculine traits like being violent, unemotional, sexually aggressive , etc.  We talk about how we as women can be change agents in changing the conversation with our partners and children to open up doors for positive emotions as opposed to just negative ones!

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Ep #123 The Man and the Woman in the Mirror: Vanity in Relationships

In this episode of BLB we discuss whether or not it’s okay to ask someone you are dating to change something about themselves? Whether it be weight , clothes, the style of hair, too much or not enough make-up, is it ever okay to ask someone to change?  Are these things deal breakers ? Is weight the only taboo topic? Is it okay to say” Hey babe, you’ve gained a few pounds, get on that”!? We discuss healthy ways to have these conversations.   We all know no one is perfect , but how far have you gone to try and change your partner or what have they asked you to change? What did you think about that ?? Join in the conversation below !  Continue reading

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Ep #121 It’s Allegedly A Man’s World: Are You Attracted to Sexist Men? w/ Brigid

Join us this week ,with our returning guest Brigid, as we talk about the theory that some women are actually attracted to men who are sexist. We debunk studies and talk about the difference of being sexist, chauvinistic, and an alpha male, and whether or not us women find that sexy. What do you find attractive?  Is what he’s saying being sexist ? What can we do as women to change the conversation? Join us in the discussion!

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#119 – Letting Go & Moving On

“There’s this meme that reads “Sometimes holding on does more damage than letting go”. In this episode we explore that statement and try to answer why we hold on to the things that have hurt us. What are we trying to prove? What exactly can’t we get over? Join us as we attempt to let go and move on mentally, spiritually, and physically from things that can hold us back from becoming better people.”

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#118 – 4:44: The Story of MJ – An Intervention w/April, Brigid & Randy

12 episodes ago, a conversation started. Today, we (finally) have it. Tune in to hear how this band of brother (and sisters, literally and figuratively) try to bring hope back into the life of a jaded spirit. You don’t want to miss this informative, important and invaluable conversation dealing with relationships, dating, and personal struggles. Grab YOUR friends and listen in. Maybe it might spark a dialogue within your group to share your stories with one another. Enjoy and educate!  Continue reading

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#117 – Keeping Relationships Fresh w/guest “The Rock God of Podcasting” Charles Mcfall

In this week’s episode Jenn meets the Rock God of Podcasting, Finally! and we all chat it up about how to keep a relationship fresh. The important things to do that will keep your significant other feeling all the feels they felt on day one, even if its day 5236! Charles helped us break down keeping things fresh before you start a family with little one and after.  Also howto notice and discover the root of what your partner really wants and needs from you.  So check it out, and let us know what are your thoughts , tricks and tips on keeping it fresh!  Continue reading

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Episode 116: Man-Child / Kid at Heart – Admiring or Adult Wanted? w/ Brigid

“Why don’t you GROW UP?” “GET A JOB!” “Do something with yourSELF!” We’ve all heard THAT before right? To some, those exclamations remind us of our adolescence when our parents were down our throats about our future. To others, however, it reminds us of last week – but this with our significant others! In this episode we talk about the difference between a man child and a kid heart. Is there a difference or should they just both put on their adult pants. Are the significant others out of line? Should the men be allowed to have a fun side? You know what they say “all work and no play…”  But what do YOU say? Would you tolerate a man child or would you leave him in the dust in his diapers? Tune in to see what we said!  Continue reading

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Episode 112: The Strain, Stress, & Strength Within – Relationships & Mental Illness

From school shootings to our favorite musical artists, the elephant in the room has now become the bull in a china shop. Mass hysteria for something we should have had under control for some time now. At least we’re now talking about it publicly as opposed to putting it under the rug. Mental illness. Even if you don’t have it, it’s reach will effect you in some form or fashion. It’s one thing to hear about it on the news, but how about if someone you desire is going through their own battles? How do you deal with that? Do you want to learn more or are you scared by what you hear on TV? Will you pre-judge or take the time to learn that maybe your diagnosis of what mental illness is is greatly exaggerated. Tune in to what we had to say on this very important subject.  Continue reading

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Episode 107: Tambourine Or Lead? – What Position Should You Play in Your Relationship? w/ Arvie

This is pretty much a revisit of a topic we explored on Episode 29 but with a new spin on things and with a new person! What position should we play in a relationship? Should we take turns? What if you are the lead and don’t feel comfortable being the submissive one because it doesn’t suit who you are? Will you step back for the betterment of the relationship or do you feel that we have our roles to play and no need to play musical chairs? Listen in to hear what we had to say!  Continue reading

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Episode 96: I’m a Lover, Not a Fighter – Can There Be No Fighting in a Relationship?

There’s a saying that goes “Make Love, Not War”. Good words to live by, but how long can that vibe last in a relationship? There’s bound to be moments where the parties involved clash on something. So when that time comes, how are you going to deal with it? Run away and say goodbye if you want to survive screaming out “It’s time to be free?” Are you going to fight dirty and say things to emotionally cripple your partner just to win? Is it worth it? Are you going to take the high road and hold your opinion in and not fight. How good is that for your soul to not be able to share your thoughts? Listen in to see what we think on the matter!  Continue reading

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Episode 86: Bring Me a Higher Love – Exploring Intimacy Farther then The Physical w/ Relationship Educator Yanni Brown

With dating, especially at the beginning, people tend to rush through the pleasantries and only want get to the “good” part. Not pointing fingers or anything, sex is AWESOME, but is that really the thing we should be focusing on? What happened to being the Tortoise instead of the Hare? What about the slow build? I’m not even talking about foreplay (although that’s nice too!). What happened to getting to know a person first? Getting to know the Ins and Outs of them as opposed to just going in and out of them? There are other ways of getting to know a person before you do the horizontal polka. That’s where our special guest steps in. Yanni Brown, relationship educator, lets us know the many ways of being intimate before we even get take our clothes off.  Continue reading

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